My Point of View

Congratulations to Tethered Author,
Amy MacKinnon

Over the last few days I’ve felt a bit like a sister watching her sibling show off her new baby. I’ve held back a few tears when family members openly gushed about my dear friend Amy MacKinnon’s accomplishment with genuine love. When she opened her copy of the recently released novel, Tethered and eloquently read those haunting first lines to a crowd leaning in to savor her prose, I felt proud. And when the crowd jockeyed for a turn at congratulating her as she began to sign personalized copies, I smiled.

Amy is a member of my cherished writers’ group and a marvelous writer. I urge all of you to head out to your local independent bookseller to buy a copy of, Tethered. Read an excerpt at her site.

Congratulations, Amy. I’m so happy for you!

My Gorgeous Cover

My thanks go out to Executive Art Director, Michael Storrings for creating the perfect cover for Life Without Summer. And to my team at St. Martin’s, please accept my gratitude for taking the time to get the cover just right.

Controversy Over Autism

Experts like me and and parent advocates for a better understanding of autism encourage early detention so that appropriate treatment can begin. But with recent radio host, Michael Savage’s remarks about autism being more about bratty kids and poor parenting creating controversy, what are parents to think or do?

This morning, I sat down with Gene Lavanchy of Boston’s Fox 25 Morning News to debunk Savage’s uninformed, inflammatory comments. Feel free to send the link to anyone telling you he or she agrees with Savage. Children with autism and their parents need support not judgment. Information is power. Spread the word.

Meet Marisa de los Santos

When I saw the advance praise for the new novel, Belong to Me, by Marisa de los Santos, I was delighted. A big fan (along with millions of other readers) of her first novel, Love Walked In, I couldn’t wait to get my hands on it. De los Santos delivers with her second gem. After finishing Belong to Me, I contacted Marisa asking if she’d like to be part of the author spotlight series posted over at my Writers’ Group blog, and lucky for her fans she agreed. I hope you enjoy the full interview.

Welcome to My Point of View

Thanks for visiting my new website and blog. I’m thrilled with the new look! And I’m grateful for the opportunity to share the ins and outs of my writing, speaking, and family life work with you.

The new site has everything the old site had–and more. You can still watch television clips of my Fox 25 Morning News appearances, listen to radio clips, and read feature articles. A more user-friendly Library includes a new addition called Lynne in the News, and another called Lynne as Contributor. There you’ll find a recent article that appeared in the Patriot Ledger on the changing role of step-dads and an article from the Boston Globe about mothers who write.

As you can probably gather from the inclusion of information about my forthcoming novel, Life Without Summer, my family life work is moving in a new direction. I’m spending more time writing fiction, though even my novel is all about family life. Life Without Summer will be published in April, by St Martin’s Press. Via this blog and my Writers Group blog, I’ll keep you posted on the details of my writing life.

I continue to speak across the country, promoting Negotiation Generation, which highlights my approach to taking back your parental authority without punishment. If your interested in setting up a program in your community, please be in touch.

So have fun poking around the new site. There’s a lot here for you to read, listen to, and see. Of course, feel free to spread the word to interested family and friends. And do post comments, it’s a great way for you to offer your own point of view on the topics I write about.

In the Company of Writers

I almost deleted his email, the subject line–French Publisher Wants Publicity Shots–looked suspicious. Surely this was another come on to entice an eager writer. But wait, I have a French publisher. So I opened the message to find that Belfond was sending famed photographer, Jerry Bauer to the United States to take two author photos. Mine was one of them.

We spoke first by phone. He was calling from Italy, where he lives most of the year. Charming yet directive, he suggested where we would meet–the Inn at Harvard on a Saturday in four weeks–and what I should wear. He said, “I will recognize you because I’ve been to your website and have seen your photo. Let me tell you how you will know me. On a good day, I am Elton John. On a bad day, I am Woody Allen.”

Intrigued and excited, I prepped for the big day. New make-up. I got my hair trimmed. And thanks to my dear daughter, I found the perfect dress when we went shopping. She was on spring break and asked if she could join me. “Sure, he sounds like an interesting man. It will be fun,” I said. He’d told me he’d photographed, Kiran Desai, Jhumpa Lahiri, Alice Sebold, Tom Perrotta, Gail Tsukiyama, Tim O’Brien, and the list goes on and on. I couldn’t wait to hear more.

So we arrive on time and in he walks. More Woody than Elton, he came in holding only a well-worn bag. I must have looked puzzled. “Everything I need is in it,” he said. With camera in hand, Jerry went looking for light. I followed.

Jerry Bauer is a light master. He would ask me to move and sit and stand, all while he looked for the right light. Each photo was painstakingly orchestrated, yet I felt relaxed, I posed effortlessly. While he worked, he talked, telling me about the thrill of photographing Simone de Beauvoir and Jack Kerouac. Dean Koontz likes to be photographed in his home, as does Gail Godwin. Luciano Pavarotti liked to share a meal before being photographed. And Elizabeth Taylor, well she didn’t much care whether you took the photo or not. After all, she’s Elizabeth Taylor.

In short order, he said we were done and that the tea would be out momentarily. It was as if he lived right there at the Inn. My daughter and I took our seats at the table covered in white linen, the tea and scones arrived, and Jerry told us all about being an on set movie photographer in the sixties and seventies. My daughter, a music major in college, swooned when she heard about all the opera singers Jerry has met and photographed.

At the end of our tea, I asked Jerry if I would be able to use one of the photos on my website. He said, “of course.”

“I like the way you do business,” I said.

“I don’t do business, I meet people,” he said.

And that sums it up. Jerry spends his life meeting people. His life is rich because he’s doing what he loves. He’s using his talent to capture each writer’s personality and he enjoys every minute of it.

When I left the Inn, I didn’t much think about whether the photos would be good enough to grace the cover of the French version of Life Without Summer. I had an experience of a lifetime. Photographed by Jerry Bauer, I was in the company of writers.

So here it is.